If you check well, it could be that your behaviour was
really embarrassing for those guys and unless you
take time to realise what those behaviours are and
put them right, good men will keep running away
from you.
Do you want to know the things that make men lose
interest in you and how to keep your man?
Maxnaija.com will be listing 10 things ladies do that
scare men away from them:
1. Clinging To Him Like Static:
While it might seem like spending every waking
moment together is fun at
first, it WILL get old. It’s more likely that he’ll feel this
before you do. All good relationships have a little
space in them. Give him time to miss you and
occasionally wait for him to initiate contact. Keep
your friends, hobbies and interests alive.
2. Over-Communicating:
“Hihihihihi” , “What are you
doing?”, “How about now?”, “And now? I just thought
I would share what I’m having for lunch.”, “I sneezed
and thought of you!”, Ugh … just no.
3. Nagging:
It’s pretty much never a good time to
start chiding him about things he’s “doing wrong”.
You might change his behavior in the short term, but
the cost you’ll pay in his resentment is large.
4. Emotional Outbursts:
I don’t know a person alive
who hasn’t at some point completely flipped their
top. It happens to everyone. However, freaking out
(and acting it out) is never good for your relationship.
If you’re prone to this, work on displaying your
feelings calmly. It never hurts.
5. Making Him Pay For Every Single Thing:
I’m definitely a fan of courtship, but remember that it’s
sure nice to treat him also. Expecting him to cover
everything all the time is more than a little one-sided
and mean. It can also make him feel like you’re just
there for free dinner.
6. Acting Entitled:
Don’t act like you automatically
own his weekends, access to his wallet or anything
else. Be nice to everyone, and don’t treat anyone like
they owe you something.
Being Rude To Others: I realize that telling you NOT
to act like a jerk if you’re really a jerk isn’t going to
create meaningful change in the world. But for those
of you who have an edge, know that it can kill your
budding romance dead.
7. Making Him Accommodate Your High Maintenance Behavior:
High maintenance behavior
has a lot of different manifestations. Maybe it’s not
leaving the house without looking like a fashionista or
wanting that perfect, specific food item. High
maintenance is a lot of things. They’re not all bad, but
you simply shouldn’t require him to suffer as a result.
For my sisters who look amazing all the time, go on
with your bad self. This is not about dulling your
shine or putting you down. It’s about… waiting time.
No one wants to feel like they’re with someone who
disrespects their time or that you can’t go for a
spontaneous walk because you wore “This Ordinary
Shoes”. So get the beauty routine figured out before
he shows up to pick you up for dates, and dress for
what you expect to do together…
8. Making Him Feel Less:
If you try to do this to a
man, especially with spiritual stuffs, you are finished
if he by any means get to know about it. Love your
man with all your heart, you will enjoy him when he
feels you are truly in love with him and not after
some material things from him.
9. Making Assumptions:
There are a ton of things to
make assumptions about when you meet someone
new, and the vast majority are a bad idea. Assuming
that he’s on the same page as you, automatically
thinking he’s “up to something” or wondering if he’s
already pulling away are all problematic. When in
doubt, have a chat with your man and make him feel
your love even more. Don’t compete with him.
10. Predicting That “It’s Over” And Then Making
That A Self-Fulfilling Prophecy:
Maybe he doesn’t call at the exact time or day he says he will. Maybe
things seem “off”. The problem is that filling these
grey areas with doubt and mistrust will create a
problem where there wasn’t one before. Send him a
loving message and remind him that you are always
ready to work with him to achieve your desires and
most importantly, tell him “I love you!” with a
reassuring smile
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